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S2025E14 - 2026 E14 Lead with Empower Podcast

This episode of the Lead with Empower Podcast features a discussion on how leaders and team members can effectively handle mistakes within a group dynamic. The speakers emphasize that while mistakes are inevitable, particularly in challenging activities designed for growth, the reaction to these mistakes dictates whether a team improves or faces further conflict.

The discussion outlines three primary ways to respond when a team member makes a mistake:

● Ignore the mistake: Choosing to do nothing might work if the individual takes personal ownership to fix the error. However, frequently ignoring mistakes often leads to growing frustration, potentially culminating in a "crash out" or emotional meltdown.

● "Blast" the person: This "old school" approach involves publicly berating or yelling at the person who made the mistake. While some may respond to "tough love," most individuals will shut down or begin making mistakes out of spite because they feel small and mistreated.

● "Coach up" the individual: This proactive method involves pausing to breathe and discussing the root of the problem without making the person feel "voted off the island". Leaders should use inquiry to understand the struggle and ask what support the team can provide.

Key takeaways from the speakers include:

● Know your people: Understanding an individual's personality is critical to providing the right layer of feedback, as some may handle tough love while others require reassurance.

● Front-end work pays off: While "coaching up" takes more effort initially than a visceral emotional reaction, it leads to more efficient processes and fewer long-term mistakes.

● Leadership through listening: An example was shared of a mature group of fourth graders who successfully navigated mistakes because they ensured everyone had a voice and was listened to.

● Solution-oriented approach: Strong leaders do not let emotions hinder productivity; they focus on building people up and finding solutions.

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